What To Do?

A good friend of mine is very sick.  I am afraid to write just how sick she is.  Writing it would make it too real. 

She is focussed on her family right now.  She does not have any energy for friends.

She is in the hospital; they are "trying to make her comfortable."

I want to visit, but am not sure she would welcome the visit.  I will not go unless I know it is ok with her.

I wonder if I will get a chance to talk with her.

I am praying.  I am hoping.  But I am scared.