My cancerific journey began in fall of 2003 when I was diagnosed with Stage II, grade 3 (or grade 8 on the nine point scale), Invasive Ductal Carcinoma -- breast cancer. I was 32. My only child, Olivia was 2. After multiple surgeries, several rounds of the red-devil and cytoxan, I was given tamoxifen pills and pronounced NED (No Evidence of Disease).
Less than two years later, I discovered another hard lump and joined the advanced cancer club, stage III recurrent IDC. So LOTS more rounds of chemo-freakin-therapy, surgery, weeks of radiation treatments and a couple of hot-zone free PET scans; I was again declared NED.
Half a year later I called my doctor with back pain. Oh yes friends, the cancer was back with a vengeance. Scans revealed multiple tumors in my rib, femur, liver, lung, and in every vertebrae (as well as a collapsed T-12). Two days later I resumed both chemo-freakin-therapy and simultaneous radiation to my spine. Then surgery to put some glue/cement into my T-12. I've been on one flavor of chemo or another since then and will continue for the rest of my life.
My daughter is now 8 and in second grade. I have been raising her alone since her father left when I was five months pregnant. No fight, no discussion, nothing; we had seen the baby on the ultrasound the week before and I came home from work - all of his things were gone. There was some cash on the counter with the note, "for the phone bill."
I live in beautiful Colorado. I have four siblings. My daughter and I have moved in with my parents. Almost as much as my daughter and family; I love my work/all things learning, great food, red wines, European chocolates, reading, movies, traveling, and fancy shoes.
You sum up all your hardships up with wit and humor!
ReplyDeleteI look forward to hearing more of your story and getting to know you!
Welcome aboard!!